Wow. It’s been forever since I posted out here! So long, that Noreen actually emailed me and asked why I haven’t posted. No reason, other then L-A-Z-Y and BUSY.
So what’s new? Let’s see…going back a few weeks now, we had an extra ultrasound because our normally active monkey was a little less active. It must have just been the position he was in because clear as day, we could see him moving all over on the monitor. Everything was perfect, which we expected. I had just become so used to his swift movements that the reduction in movement came as a surprise. Needless to say, we received some really cool 3D/4D pictures of our little man, and one was a great shot of his face! It’s amazing that I can already see some Sherman & Shafer characteristics. I’m not going to post his pictures online because my mom asked me not to. But, if you’d like to see them and I haven’t already sent them to you, just let me know, and I’ll send an email along.
July 16th was our third wedding anniversary, and David broke the “no gift” rule by bringing me a beautiful bouquet of flowers. We had a low key evening and just grabbed a bite to eat out and stayed in to watch a movie. Last year, we were admitted on our anniversary, so the first anniversary of that experience proved to be a bit difficult for me.
July 17th was the first anniversary of our loss. So, that week was pretty challenging as a whole. We made it though. It was extra emotional because while being so sad for our loss, I am incredibly grateful for our little boy that is growing and active inside of me. Two very conflicting and overwhelming feelings. We took the day off of work and just putzed around running errands, washing cars, and making dinner together. The day itself went much better then I expected. The anxiety leading up to it, not so much. On Sunday, July 20th, we attended a Mass of Remembrance at St. Clare in remembrance of Angela with our families. This was very special, and meant a lot to have our families with us to share. My mom and brother Chris were in Florida and attended mass to participate from a distance, and then called us after. We are so lucky to have such supportive families.
Last weekend was my first baby shower. Holy wowzer! What a beautiful party that my Mother-In-Law and Sister-In-Law put on. We received so many gifts and books to start monkey’s library. It was so much fun to see so many people there. I couldn’t convince Dave to stay for the entire shower, but he did do his husbandly duties of helping his mom set-up (just barely) and then come at the end to say thank you and pack up the gifts. I spent the rest of Saturday unpacking the gifts and trying to get organized. Each day, I’ve tried to do a little bit more to make progress. I can’t wait until the room is completely finished! Once it is, I will post some pictures. This weekend, the plan is to put the rug down J and maybe (I haven’t reminded Dave yet) change the ceiling fan. Another task I spent the week working on was THANK YOU notes. After my shower, I think there were 36 notes that needed to be filled out and sent. One flaw is that I write A LOT. I can’t help it. It’s important for people to know how much I appreciate things. So, I was working on those in the morning before work, and then at night before bed. I am proud to say they were all mailed by Thursday morning! Yahooo!!!!
Next week will be super busy too…My family shower is on Thursday. We are really so lucky to have so many people want to celebrate with us, and I just can’t say that enough. I feel like I’ve done a lot of cleaning/organizing this summer, but nothing has prepared me for the quantity and space that all of the baby stuff is actually consuming. Lots more cleaning to do!
I’ll try to post some pictures soon. I’m feeling large and in charge, so this baby is no longer a secret (hasn’t been for a while). At his last ultrasound, he weighed in at 3lbs 1oz. Our little hef-a-lump. He’s in the 67th percentile. So, he’s not too huge yet. At our appointment last night, we found out he was breech. This is no biggie since we still have so much time left. It did explain why I always thought I was feeling his head…and I was right!